So I am just going to let it all hang out. A stream of consciousness or not so consciousness, a word vomit as I let my fingers fly across the keyboard and grammar and spelling be motherfucking damned cause I am so over this.
It is NOT OK to spew your venom on someone else, be mean or condescending and then expect people to forgive because you are having a hard time.
I DO NOT ACCEPT that I have to take your shit – your words or your false accusations – because you have a diagnosis of some sort.
And neither does any one else.
Take responsibility.
Own your words and your fucking actions.
I don’t use the dark cloud of perpetual diarrhoea perched on my shoulder as a reason to go around being a fucking douchebag to others and then have people make excuses for my INEXCUSABLE behaviour cause I am having a shit shower.
I don’t let Boo, who is my forever toddler, get away with that sort of vileness because he knows that is not how one should behave.
As do you.
But you hide behind your doctors or your diagnosis or your pain that you wear like a badge and feel that you have a right to make everyone else as fucking miserable as you are but you know what?
YOU KNOW WHAT?
You shall go on and live your miserable life hurting and destroying those that love you or care for you or just had the misfortune to stumble on your path of woeisme lined with the corpses of those you have slain before to build up your pathetic ego, and others who have walked your same road or roads so much more treacherous that your tiny little self absorbed brain could even comprehend will turn a different way and try and make the most of it.
And try their very best to avoid fuckers like you.
How about try something different and not be a self righteous world-owes-me arsehole fuckknuckle dickbag?
Maybe a human being?
Soon everyone will get tired of your bullshit and you will burn too many kind people who feel sorry for you (is that really what you want? Friends that are only your friends out of PITY?) and you will be all alone.
And you will have no one to blame but your sorry arsed self.
If you think I may be talking about you, then I probably am.
Fucking over your shit Kelley, OUT.
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Amen.
all rightey then…. (backs away slowly)
That is what I try to teach my girls, own what you say and treat others the way you would like to be treated.
Hope this helped. xxx
xxx
Better out than in.
Also, yes.
There is obviously a back story I am missing, but I so agree with you. I try and keep my misery to myself, or at least not use it to hurt others and hopefully, I succeed most of the time.
I don’t know what prompted this, but all know is that ANYONE saying vile and horrible things about ANYONE else from behind the ‘protection’ of their keyboard – well it is despicable. And it makes my head hurt.
Nicely said Kel
It doesn’t take much not to be an asshole. Why do people do it? Not sure…
Yes.
Be gentle on yourself beautiful lady.Xx
Yup. You DO NOT have to take her words, her behaviour to you.
What we accept becomes the norm. You are part of creating a normal where people are decent to each other.
*hugs*
Rock on.
Word.
————tiptoes out, closes door.
You know my mother too?
People who do that have far more problems than the one they are diagnosed with, and the worst ones usually have Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Which they don’t hide behind bcs its not something they will ever be aware of. Ppl like this deserve your anger, contempt, and a smack in the head with a whole barrel of frozen fish. And then act like they don’t exist, bcs to give them one more second of your energy is a thousand times more than they ever deserve.
I hope you feel better for having thumped that out on your poor defenceless keyboard. xxx
I agree. In fact, I only said this morning “asshole is not a diagnosis”.
I so want to comment but I am a little scarred. :-/ Not sure I should ask but hey I’m going to anyway. Did I miss something? I’m assuming a troll not sure. Would like to know but Kel if we should just leave it alone that’s works for me too.
( I am standing at the door leaning over pressing the enter button so I can make quick exit before I comment. )
Not to self, do not upset you Kelley.
Hope your okay.
Amen
This whole world is mired in the victim mentality. Everything is the fault of someone or something else. There is NO personal responsibility and a glaring lack of a context to their own integrity. Shit happens, harden the fuck up world. I agree totally with this eloquent and passionate expression.
Sorry Kelley I am only new to blogging and didn’t realise what was going on behind the scenes nor what was being said. After reading it earlier tonight I think this post is more than understandable. I’m so sorry you are going through this. Not just you but all of you. The blogging community helped me come back into living after I lost my son than my best friend and finally my dad to cancer a few months apart. I also have three boys with autism and the love and support I have found has helped me through the roughest of days. I’m not going to go back and read anymore not link anyone to them. I think this just give them more power. For what it’s worth you all changed my life. I read your stories on night when bad dreams engulfed my sleep and I think you guys are fantastic. Stay wonderful. Much love. MTA.
I read this last night and made hubby read it too
Whatever it is that is going on I hope it settles down
People hide behind keyboards, they also hide behind life and the consequences that come with their choices
Your post blows all that out of the water, good on you!
xx
Sing it, sister, beautifully put.
I may send a certain someone this link to read for herself, you’ve nailed it perfectly xxx
I don’t know the person but I applaud your words Kelley. My boys have Aspergers and I’m bringing them up to understand that it’s not an excuse, it’s an understanding for behaviours not an excuse for them and that no matter whether it’s harder for them or not they need to do what’s right.
I have no idea who this is about but well said !!!!!!!!
Word sista’!
A-fucking-men.
She’s lower than a worm’s underbelly & must be the twin of mine (who has thankfully given up). [[hugs]]
I’m not sure who she is but I hope she reads this and takes it under advisement.
Sending love xx
The last line should have read:
“(Drops microphone, and exits stage left …)”
Welcome to our world!
I’m a little scared! I don’t know what’s happened but I can understand the sentiment completely and I agree 1000%. There is no excuse, diagnosis or not for people to take their venom. their problems and their unhappiness out on other people. We all know that when someone attacks us it really is nothing to do with us, that it really is all about them and the unhappiness they feel about themselves and their lives. It doesn’t make it any easier to deal with. I have two such people in my life – when I say in my life, I mean family members, who will always be in my life (at least until karma comes and fucks them over like they have fucked us over-not that I really believe in karma because these people are still alive and still happily living their shitty lives) but I have cut them off and refused to engage with them any more, and most certainly refuse to let them share our lives. Despite that, the anger and hate I feel for them is overwhelming , so I do understand. Stand tall, we love you!
Well, fuck. The trolls are taking out their misery on you again? Fuck ‘em. Fuck ‘em all.
Cheering you on, Kelley, but quietly, from over here in the corner!
Damn straight
x
Uhh, I know it’s not me, right? Kiddding, kidding.
Hubba-hubba and I have declared 2013 the “Year of Kicking Toxic People Out of Our Lives” and it seems, my dear, you are right along with us!
Hugs!
No idea who, what or why (as usual) but sorry to hear. My NYE wish for all on FB was ‘more joy, less fuckwits’ so if so, only 6 days in, this is much too soon xx
Bugger them all Kelley. Not worth your time or energy. Not worth your tears or heartache. Simply not worth it. xx
Eek! Sorry that someone’s treating you badly – surely they were raised better than that.
Loved the post and beautifully written by the way!
xxxx
Wow. Pro. Found.
And I need to share this. There’s a particular person I could share this with, followed by a “Take THAT, bitch!”, but I’ll refrain, because the argument is dead and buried. But thank you. Thank you for finding the best kind of words.
I hope letting the stream of consciousness out helped you a bit Kelley. Obviously getting this person to see what they are really doing and changing their ways would be better but from the sounds of things that may not happen. Stay strong.
A-fucking-men! I need some little black cards with that top graphic on them to pass out.
No idea what is going on, but I know people like that, and sometimes it’s all we can do to just have a massive vent and then just leave them to it, no matter how much you may have cared for them in the past.
Some people are their own worst enemies, but they think everyone else is.
They will never see what they’re doing, because they’re too stuck up their own arse.
I totally agree with Tara R – need some cards made with this to pass out!!